• okwhateverdude@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    At that point just say “Nice tits” and get the awkwardness out of the way. I ain’t playing your little power game as one of those friends.

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    4 days ago

    Wow, the comments in this thread are surprisingly bad, even for a shitpost.

    Having been in the situation myself, my thoughts were very much “let’s not make them uncomfortable” (meaning feel sexualised), but the first times (as a young’un) it got stiff enough (not that way :p) that the person chose to break the tension. Just don’t be weird about it and everyone can be comfortable.

    There are plenty of situations and contexts where nudity isn’t sexual, and I highly recommend getting comfortable with that distinction. I find people and groups of all genders to become a lot more safe with that skill.

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    I actually find this gross, I’m assuming the roommate consented or else your are no better than the guys who flash people naked under a trench coat. But if he did, and he’s obviously so visibly uncomfortable, I can’t imagine as an empathetic person continuing to make them uncomfortable.

    Even if them being uncomfortable was because they were trying not to make me feel uncomfortable. I can’t imagine the meme switched genders people would be so cool about it. I guess i could say if a pig has wings it would be a bird, but this is gross. Sorry.

    It’s funny cause I just got mad at someone for saying something fucked up to a shitpost, but this doesn’t feel right at all.

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    If your hanging about with your junk out I’m looking. If you don’t want me to look put your pants back on.

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      Used to have “Naked Tuesdays” with another couple we were friends with years ago. Just the four of us hanging out naked watching TV, maybe some other things happening. If you weren’t looking at anyone else, why even bother?

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          We always just got together on Tuesdays. Worked best for all four of us and work schedules.

          I don’t really remember how it started. I think one day was just really hot outside and our apartment was cool, but me and the other guy took our shirts off. The girls got all jealous and took their off, and it just went from there. Every Tuesday after that was them arriving then clothes coming off.

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              My partner and I walk around often enough just naked. We live on a farm now with 14 acres and really no one around us.

              We’re getting our deck expanded with a little bit of privacy from the road, so soon we can sit outside naked.

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    As a nudist I could care less.

    And I’d look. Just wouldn’t continuously stare. That’s kind of the nudist rule.

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    I’d be worried looking might be interpreted as leering or being otherwise disrespectful.